Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Carnival has come and gone and left me in shambles




The dust of the Carnival/holiday season has settled, and I am left feeling mangled and exhausted. I can now see why people dont work during Carnival season, because they are devoting all of their human capacities to the festivites. I am quite eager to spend a full year here and see just how people prepare for it, because I physically, mentally, emotionally, financially, and spiritually...all of the 'llys... could not keep up with the pace of Kittitians. Allow me to give some background on what exactly Carnival is:
Carnival is basically a week or so of festivities, concerts, contests, and music that most West Indian countries celebrate in one way or another. It originated in Trinidad and manifested as a Caribbean take on West African festivals. West Indian slaves enhanced the Carnival celebration with music and dancing which is still ever so vibrant today. Calypso and Soca music blare through the streets with no regards for noise control because everyone should be celebrating Carnival, and if you aren't, youre just going to have to deal with it.
In regards to St. Kitts, Carnival can be summed up into the three integral P's: parades, pageants, and party. That is not party in the noun sense, but rather as a verb and a general state of mind. People party their faces off and allot these two weeks to be the official expunging process of every stressor that has amounted over the past year. Carnival is an excuse to stop whatever work you are doing, ignore whatever qualms you are experiencing, and dance your worries away through the winding streets of Basseterre. My friend Gisela and I commenced our Carnival celebration with the Big and Beautiful pageant, which is a positive counteraction to the typical pageants that instill particular beauty ideals in young women everywhere around the world. But I cant lie, it was also about $10 cheaper than the Miss St. Kitts pageant, so we ended up getting more woman for less money. Go us! It was an amazing night that lasted until around 1 a.m. with musical guests and a loquacious yet hilarious MC. I know that in the states a big and beautiful pageant would be like...a size 8...but here the women really put the big in big and beautiful. Not only are they corpulent, but they are extremely tall, so they carry quite a presence that is truly highlighted when an average sized woman stands next to them, like during the interview section. They were incredibly self confident and strutted their stuff like they were queens. You go girls!
On the day after Christmas, St. Kitts celebrates J'ouvert. The pictures at the top are of J'ouvert, but I don't think they can do it any justice. It is pronounced "Jew-vay", but is of no relation to the Jewish religion (clearly). I can say that because I'm Jewish..ish. Anyways, people wake up the morning of December 26th at an ungodly hour, for us it was 2 AM but for others they just start at midnight, and gather together in their troops. Our troop was the X-TREME pirates, hence the get-up. It was ENORMOUS, and we pretty much were the only one i spotted, but the tradition is to form numerous troops. We gathered at a park with music blaring and (possibly) alcoholic beverages being handed out from a rum-truck (the same thing that was pulling the speakers). There were people walking around with buckets of paint that we covered ourselves in, but people also showed up with neatly done facepaint as well. That is a longstanding J'ouvert tradition, and I actually read that they sometimes throw out colored powders to step it up a notch. At about 3-4 AM when we finally hit the streets. We basically just danced down the road at a snail-like speed, allowing for members of the troop to dance in the most shocking-for-an-oblivious-American way possible. West Indians really know how to dance, I'll admit it. I pretty much made a fool out of myself when I busted out my moves, and kind of felt like my dad at a high school dance. And i dont mean dad in a general sense. Specifically, I felt like my father.
We left the J'ouvert madness at about 11 AM and passed out into a coma-like slumber. I awoke at around 3:00 at a friends house and couldnt remember what day it was/feel my feet. They always say that's how you know you had a good time the night before! Actually, I dont think that's a saying, but I'm starting it, thanks to J'ouvert.
The rest of Carnival after J'ouvert is a haze to me. Not because I was doing crazy things, but just because it consisted of me trying to muster up the energy to participate in the activities that the locals were taking on with full force. There were parades, concerts, pageants, and plenty of liming (liming translates to hanging out and enjoying the occasional beverage). I really, really wanted to partake...but I felt like a melting glacier (too soon?). Hopefully next year I will have saved up my strength for Carnival, like a hibernating bear.

And for the record, in picture #2 I am smiling, not crying out for help. No need for alarm; it was fun.

Much love and Paz and a HAPPY NEW YEAR,

Alisa

A sunshiney Christmas










Happy holidays everyone!!


Yesterday was the big day…CHRISTMAS..and boy do Kittitians love Christmas. A few nights ago I sent a text message to one of the women who goes to my church, Jestina, asking if I could see her on Christmas day, and she told me to just come to the Christmas morning church service. I then asked what time the bus would come, and she said 5 A.M. I guess I’m no connoisseur on Christmas church services, but I have never heard of such an early Christmas day service. It did work out in my benefit though, because I got to walk around before church and take pictures of the Christmas light display in Cayon Village before the service. I love seeing Christmas lights in a tropical setting...it just looks a little off, like when dogs wear clothing. Except a lot less depressing. After the service we all made breakfast which was a major bonus for getting up so early.

As much as I don’t follow too many holiday traditions, I do love Christmas. I dont take it to the level of absurdity, and I never see myself being that woman who wears audible Christmas sweaters with bells and plastic Santa sleighs sewn on, but for some reason I cant help but get sucked into the warmth and joy of the season. I don’t know if it’s all the excited children, the commercialized colors and decorations that give a Pavlovian reminder of vacation, or the joyful energy that is usually circulating amongst people during this time. I’d like to think it is a time that brings about forgiveness, kindness, and generosity. People search through their pockets for some extra change for people in need, give donations to charities, and overlook past differences in the name of holiday spirit. I guess I just wish it wasn’t only once a year that so many people expose the truly beautiful side of human interaction.

Yesterday at church I don’t think anyone could deny the resonance of holiday cheer that sweetened the atmosphere around us. Everyone was smiling, people were offering to help with making breakfast, and conversation was full and harmonious with laughter. The sense of family overflowed beyond the nuclear, and enveloped us all under a blanket of love and gratitude for each others presence. Even though I was away from my real family and missed them so very much, yesterday I felt like a part of another family. I hope that every day we can remember the importance of basic, human kindness; human in the sense that we can empathize with one anothers situations and realize that we are all taking on the tiring and sometimes difficult journey that is life. We hold the ability to either ease or amplify the burdens that those around us are feeling, and with time, we can also realize that when we lighten the load for others through simple acts of compassion, ours too will release pressure.

I hope all of your holidays celebrations bring you joy and love. If you can appreciate the small things, like the sense of human interconnectedness that is always present around us, I’m sure you can have a rich and meaningful holiday, regardless of not having all your family present, or getting the presents you may have thought you wanted.

Much love and Paz,

alisa